I first published this post in October, 2006, but it's a topic that needs repeating!
Divorce is a tough topic for most people. It's hard enough acknowledging that the relationship is not working, but then everything has to be split up and what happens to the kids has to be sorted out as well. Occasionally a client has come to me that is separated from their spouse, but not yet divorced. The client wants to buy a house so they can move on with his/her life. In Minnesota one person in the relationship can legally buy alone, but when it comes time to sell, if the buyer has been married during the ownership of the house, both spouses have to sign off on the deed to transfer ownership.
Buying a home in Minnesota when you are in the process of a divorce is not a wise choice without consulting legal counsel. Minnesota has laws which automatically give the absent spouse a legal right to the newly purchased house if it is purchased before the divorce is final. That would mean the non-resident spouse would need to issue a quit claim deed or some other form of deed before the resident spouse could sell the property.
One of my first buyer clients had a scenario like this one. She had lived in and inherited the St. Paul family home. When she moved to the east coast, she rented the family home in her absence. While on the coast, she met and married a gentleman and started a family. The marriage collapsed and she returned to the cities with her children sans husband. In order to sell the family home and buy a suburban home, the ex-husband had to sign a quit claim deed to release his legal interest in the home. He had never seen the house, never visited the house, had no emotional ties to the house. She owned it before and after the marriage. He stubbornly refused to sign away his rights without compensation! She ended up paying him 8% of the sale price to obtain his signature on the deed!
The moral of the story is don't buy a house until your divorce is final OR get legal council to protect your interest in the property and eliminate the "ex's" interest. Otherwise, a future sale could be a costly endeavor.